Boundaries & Not settling

This week, and honestly since I met my Twin Flame, I have been dealing with and healing boundaries and not settling in my union. This week I had a breakthrough, mainly in my awareness about what needs to change in my Union in order for it to thrive, and of course, that starts with me changing my ways, my false self, and my patterns. My Twin Flame was mirroring to me a lack of self care & self love this week, when he was resisting and angrily expressing to me that he does not desire to join me to my neices 1 year old Birthday Party. It was very painful for me to go through, but I healed and received a wonderful lesson as a result, and now I feel closer to God and more aware of what needs healing on my journey. As I loved myself, using the Mirror Exercise, my Twin Flame ended up making a new choice and he came with me to the birthday. But, that wasn’t the point of all this, the point was what led him to come and the journey there was not fun, nor was it easy-going. He kicked and screamed and I felt helpless. I felt lost. There was nothing I could physically do in the moment to change his unwanted behavior. All I could do at that point was go within and feel my feelings, love myself. As I did so, I realized there were places within me where I was not caring about myself, my happiness, and self love. This resulted in me feeling like my Twin Flame doesn’t care about me, my happiness, and doesn’t love me. I healed this & his behavior changed. Like magic. It works. But I know I’m not done healing this yet. There is more work to do. I am empowered though to continue working on this, as my ultimate desire is Harmony with God, myself & my Twin Flame. The Mirror Exercise and Divinely Guided Action is the way. I was not willing to setttle and go to the birthday by myself and I had to set boundaries with my Twin Flame, telling him I desire for him to come and that if he doesn’t come, that would be a very unloving choice. I am eager to continue healing here and walk the path to my Harmonious Twin Flame Union, knowing I don’t ever have to settle on my desires and I really CAN have it all, because dreams and desires are meant to come true. AMEN

love,

Natalie Dimant Cohen